
"Courage, also known as bravery, will, intrepidity, and fortitude, is the ability to confront fear, pain, risk/danger, uncertainty, or intimidation.
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Physical courage" is courage in the face of physical pain, hardship, or threat of death, while "
moral courage" is the ability to act rightly in the face of popular opposition, shame, scandal, or discouragement." (wiki pedia)
During this past week, I read an address from President Monson- given to the young women, but I feel it applies to anyone. It is titled- May You Have Courage.
President Monson begins by talking about the many technological advances that we live with. But, at the same time, we have trials and challenges that are unique to this time because- in great part- of these same advances.
He spoke of the courage we need in different aspects of our lives.
First- The courage to refrain from judging others. (wonder if he has been reading blog comments?)
"Oh, you may ask, 'does this really take courage?' And I would reply that I believe there are many times when refraining from judgement- or gossip or criticism, which are akin to judgement- takes an act of courage."
"Unfortunately, there are those who feel it necessary to criticise and to belittle others....we are not left to wonder what our behavior should be in such situations. In the Sermon on the Mount, the Savior declared, 'Judge not.' At a later time He admonished, 'cease to find fault one with another.' It will take real courage when you are surrounded by your peers and feeling the pressure to participate in such criticisms and judgements to refrain from joining in."
He then quotes Mother Teresa- "If you judge people, you have no time to love them."
Second- Courage to remain chaste and virtuous. We are surrounded on every side- even some who attend church on Sunday- by those who place little or no value on remaining chaste. I know of many situations where both males and females act and speak in such "open", unrestrained manner, that it boggles my mind. My best friend in high school was a guy- and even then- I would have never dreamed to talk to him about stuff that is common conversation these days. There are things that just should be kept private.
President Monson quotes Ted Koppel- "We have actually convinced ourselves that slogans will save us. Shoot up if you must- just make sure it is a clean needle- enjoy sex whenever and with whomever (I add wherever) you wish but protect yourself. NO- the answer is No. Not NO because it isn't cool or smart or because you might end up in jail or dying in an AIDS ward- but no, because it's wrong...What Moses brought down from Mt Sinai were not the Ten Suggestions, they are Commandments. Are, not were."
Wow. I have been a little shocked to see how many people are losing their way over such things as tattoos or piercings among other things. It is not hard to NOT have a tattoo. If someone can't even obey such a relatively small commandment- how do they think they will be able to follow the harder commandments. President Monson says, "maintain an eternal perspective. Be alert to
anything that would rob you of the blessings of eternity."
Finally, Courage to stand firm for truth and righteousness. The world is speeding away from the values and principles that are in line with the Lord's way. We will have many times when we will need to take a stand, more and more often, and to more and more people. Unless we have fortified our testimony, forcing the roots deep and strong, we will find it hard to withstand the buffeting winds of ridicule as we take a stand for those things we know to be right. Just because a thing is popular or becoming accepted does not make it right.
In Lehi's vision- some who made it to partake of the fruit, but had their eyes cast down, fell away into the mists of darkness because of feeling shame. I have heard before and wonder myself- if the large and spacious building was so very fabulous- why would anyone in that building even care what anyone else was doing? Don't you think they would have plenty of other things to occupy their attention? Something that I have observed time and time again, is that people who are doing things that they know are wrong, they just can't do it alone, they have to try to drag someone else down to that level.
President Monson also said, quoting the Apostle Paul, " I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ; for it is the power of God unto salvation." He also quoted the following, "For God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." He then tells the story of Esther. He says that after Esther was physically, emotionally, and spiritually prepared, she put her life on the line for what was right. She saved a nation. We may not be called upon to put our life on the line, but the welfare of our future generations will depend on the choices we make each and every day.
I hope we will not trade what we want for eternity, for what we think we want at the moment. Many times, it is not a matter of having to make a big decision, but rather having to make thousands of little ones.
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear." Ambrose Redmoon